User:Carrotmaster68

Basic information
Hi, we're the Otherside System. We are a neurotraumagenic system (traumagenic, neurogenic, fluctugenic, moodgenic and paragenic to be precisely) that is somewhere between a Plural-Singlet and a median system, although we keep moving to the median side. Our body age is minor (somewhere between 13 and 17, we prefer not to say it exactly). We're also neurodivergent and many of us are alterhuman and/or otherkin. We will sometimes use I/me instead of we/us while refering to our system. That doesn't mean that we don't recognize our headmates, but it just means that we're sometimes too less seperate to be really plural, which makes us uncomfortable with using plural pronouns sometimes.

Some more stuff

 * Pronouns: xe/xem, ve/vir, ae/aer or he/him on the right days and for the right headmates, but they/them if you don't know our current pronouns.
 * tone indicators: yes, we need those in most cases.
 * Please refer to us as headmates instead of alters.
 * We're completely okay with queer as a reclaimed slur.

headmates (we will put more information here soon)
Note to this section: we have been a system for quite some time, but due to recent stress and mood swings, our system has changed. Because of that, we also got more headmates, but we aren't sure about much information of them. Therefore, a part of our system isn't noted here yet. We will complete this section when we know more about them.

Raven

 * Pronouns: ae/aer, sometimes he/him
 * Age: minor
 * Species: shapeshifter, mainly human, but can also get characteristics of other creatures like ravens
 * Gender: genderflorer, ravengender, musicgender
 * Attraction: loveless aromantic, bold stripe aroace, aqueerplatonic, anaesthetic, analterous, asensual
 * More info: Raven is the core of the system: ae existed before the other headmates formed. Ae is also the host of the system.

Rubedo

 * Pronouns: xe/xem, sometimes he/him
 * Age: minor
 * Species: human
 * Gender: novarian, many xenogenders
 * Attraction: bi-oriented aroace, asensual
 * More info: Rubedo was the first headmate who formed when we became a system.

Crimson

 * Pronouns: ve/vir
 * Age: minor
 * Species: half-daemon(?)
 * Gender: agender
 * Attraction: asexual, biromantic, asensual
 * More info: Crimson is a co-host of the system

Lime

 * Pronouns: ae/aer, sometimes she/her
 * Age: minor
 * Species: human
 * Gender: not sure, probably nebularian
 * Attraction: bi-oriented aroace, asensual
 * More info: Lime formed within two hours after Crimson and ae's concidered vir 'innerworld-adopted-twin-sibling'.

Diras

 * Pronouns: he/him
 * Age: minor
 * Species: human
 * Gender: male
 * Attraction: asexual, biromantic, asensual
 * More info: Diras is a nightwatcher and he only fronts very rarely in the daytime

Monarch

 * Pronouns: ey/em, they/them
 * Age: ancient (1000+ years)
 * Species: shapeshifter
 * Gender: singularian
 * Attraction: anattractional
 * More info: Monarch is the architect and overseer of the system. Eir main job is protecting us from our headspace when it's hostile and creating buildings that can cover protection to us. Ey also created a big part of our headspace and we also see em as an officium.

Zodiac

 * Pronouns: not using pronouns is preferred
 * Age: ageless
 * Species: unknown
 * Gender: not sure, most likely genderless
 * Attraction: bold stripe aroace
 * More info: Zodiac is the archivist of our system

Cherry

 * Pronouns: they/them
 * Age: minor
 * Species: human
 * Gender: non-binary
 * Attraction: aroace, asensual, bitertiary
 * More info: Cherry is the protector of our system. They will most likely front very frequently when they feel that our system needs to be protected for some reason.

Lotus

 * Pronouns: ge/gem
 * Age: age slider (13-17), maybe ageless?
 * Species: angel
 * Gender: ?
 * Attraction: loveless aroace
 * More info: Lotus is a co-host of the system

Quasar

 * Pronouns: they/them
 * Age: ?
 * Species: human
 * Gender: agender
 * Attraction: aroace, aqueerplatonic, anaesthetic, analterous, asensual
 * More info: Quasar is a quoitin in our system, they do not want to share their role with anyone outside of our system

Forest

 * Pronouns: they/them
 * Age: ?
 * Species: ?
 * Gender: agender
 * Attraction: aroace?
 * More info: Forest formed very recently. We do not know much about them, and they don't know much about themselves. We will update their section when we know more about them.

Whisper

 * Pronouns: they/them
 * Age: ?
 * Species: they do not appear to have a material form in our innerworld
 * Gender: ?
 * Attraction: ?
 * More info: Whisper acts harmfully to our system, and they especially appear to be harmful against the current fronter. We don't know much about them, and we do not know if they are completely harmful or not. We do not see Whisper as evil, and therefore we always try to be patient with them.

Disorders and similar things:

 * OSDD-1b
 * bipolar disorder I
 * seasonal affective disorder
 * hoarding disorder
 * maladaptive daydreaming disorder
 * gender dysphoria, xenodysphoria and gender fragmentation

D.N.I.
Do not interact with us if:


 * You're discriminating on any way.
 * You're against any lgbta, GSRM or mogai label.
 * You're a sysmed, transmed or any of their varieties.
 * You're a TERF or any of its varieties.
 * You're against m-spec lesbians.
 * You're anti-xenogenders.
 * You're anti-alterhuman or anti-otherkin.
 * You believe headmates or plural-singlet-personalities are the same as alter ego's.
 * You believe neurodivergent people are lesser in any way than neurotypical people.
 * You believe that neurodivergent individuals are different from neurotypical individuals in any other negative way.
 * You believe that endogenic systems aren't real systems.
 * You believe systems can only form due to trauma or/and systems can only be disordered.
 * You believe any type of trauma is 'worse' or 'heavier' than others.

Specific D.N.I.
We might ask you(&) not to interact with us if you(&) fall within the D.N.I.-criteria noted above, or for other reasons. If we do so, please


 * do not reply on our posts.
 * do not ping us, unless we asked you(&) to do so.
 * do not message us on our wall.
 * do not participate in discussions we are very active in.

However, you(&) are still allowed to


 * upvote our posts.
 * vote in polls we made.
 * reply on posts or discussions made by other people when we placed around one or two reply's on them.
 * reply to questions from other people where we already replied on.
 * contact us for mod purposes. (if you(&) are (a) moderator(s) of this wiki)
 * talk to our other headmates, if the D.N.I. is specified for only a few headmates.

We made this D.N.I. less forced than those of many other users, because we do not think it's completely fair to block users off from many possibilities on this wiki. However, when we ask for a D.N.I. with you(&), please do not interact with us on the four ways noted above.

(as a side note, we will fully respect it when you(&) ask for a full D.N.I. with us, even while we don't give those to other users)